Feb 23, 2012

black mail

i anticipate breaking these pictures out
on parker's first date he bring home to meet us.
i actually think it's a great toy.
working on those fine motor skills.
he was drooling he was concentrating so hard!
he spent a good 10 min dumping them out
and putting them back in the box.
enough time to let me brush my teeth and look presentable.

i took a pic on my phone and texted it to d at work.
his response, "Gross!"
really, babe?! 
they're not used, silly.
but i guess all boys automatically think they are disgusting
except for parker.





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Feb 22, 2012

parker and i got super bored
waiting for the FS evaluation monday
so we decided to make our first official living room tent!

he was so confused and kept trying to pull the sheet down
as i was draping it from the couches.


 he thought it was pretty cool
when we both were under there.
he just kept crawling out and then back under
and then back out.
 but of course football catch wins over
tent playing...

danny and i have officially diagnosed him as right handed.
over the weekend they were playing catch
and d would put the ball in park's left hand,
he then switched it every time to his right hand before he'd throw it back.
so no lefty pitcher here!
i guess he'll have to stick to being a horse jockey like aunt erica thinks.





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Feb 21, 2012

PT and FS

it's been a couple days.
nothing too exciting has been happening on the home front.
after parker's first PT apt 
the therapist decided to cancel his next apt we had already made
and told us to work on a few things
for 2 weeks
and come back to see how things progressed.

speaking of our PT visit, i haven't even updated since then 
to say how it went.
i'd pretty much describe it as uneventful.
i wasn't sure what to expect,
and i wasn't too impressed i suppose.
his PT didn't seem overly great with little kids.
park was ok with him at first 
when he was playing with some toys and crawling around,
while the PT observed him
but totally lost it when he tried to touch and feel his legs and hips.
then there was no calming him down.
he just screamed and reached for the door saying, 'bye bye'
so for the last, oh, 15 min
i just had to talk to the PT loudly over the wailing baby.
good times!
he basically just confirmed what his pediatrician and i already know
that he has weak core muscles.
most of the time parker does what's called 'W sits'
when the kids sit opposite of indian style with is feet going out.
and he explained he does that so he has a wider base for balancing.
so we went home and in a day we had trained parker into flipping his feet around forward
and when we tell him to 'sit right' he does this super cute spin move
and turns his legs right.

so we go back this coming friday.
no clue how parker will act
and whether it's worth continuing therapy.

yesterday afternoon was his evaluation with first steps.
a super super sweet occupational therapist came to our house and asked 
d and i a ton of questions as to what he does and doesn't do.
she watched him play.
and only because we have the hook up
(a childhood bff also works for FS and talked to amy about us)
it's all about who ya know :) 
so at the end the OT told of sort of off the record that she doesn't think he'll qualify.
he's too 'normal' in all other areas
to be functioning less that 50% of his age.
which i think is good and bad.
part of me really wanted him to qualify because i think he could really benefit from it,
but it's also reassuring to hear someone tell you
your child is excelling too much to need help.
especially because i feel like parker's whole life we've always talked about
what he doesn't do.
he couldn't sit at 6 months
or crawl at 9 months
or walk at 12 months
and never all the things he DOES do.
she was totally amazed at how well he understands things
and actually checked off a bunch of skills at the 24 month level.
(ok i'm done bragging)

so since she didn't think he'd qualify she was kind enough
to mess with him alittle bit and feel around and give us her opinion on things.
she agrees he has weak stomach/core muscles
but also some leg weakness.
nothing extreme but just needs some strengthening.
so she gave us some things such as a big work out ball
to set him on and only hold his waist
rolling him side to side making him use those muscles to keep his balance.
she also noticed when he walks that his feel turn out
which we are supposed to turn his legs inward when he's standing.
 and she agreed to continue to have him 'sit right'
so he doesn't develop any hip issues later on.
she said once he starts getting stronger
we'll be seeing a lot less W sitting on his own.

so we already bought an exercise ball last night after the apt
and we couldn't keep parker off of it.
he thinks it's his personal new toy
and LOVES when we sit in on top
he just says, 'bouncey bouncey bouncey'

it was an over all good experience and i'm glad we atleast had him tested.
it's helps ease my mind,
a little.

and here's a peak of the little man himself
from tomorrows post.





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Feb 13, 2012

on being a mom


i got this quote off another BLOG that i was reading.
and i couldn't help but share.
it was written by the blogger's mother 
on a day she was feeling a little down about parenting...


"It does get easier. After lots and lots of time. And time is something I can’t give to you. Which I guess, is the point of your blog. We, as Mom’s, want to give everything to our children that we think they need. We hurt when we can’t. But we try. Every day. And that is why we are the Mom’s. Cuz we don’t give up and we won’t dwell for long on what we can’t do. Or what someone else did not do. It may make us sad… But we get up, move on, and carry on. God did not make us wusses.  He made us awesome. Just like you are every day. And that is why you are the Mom."




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